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Are We Still Allowed To Dream?



Are we still allowed to dream? that question is keep popping in my head nowadays. I mean that you might be asking yourself how you can entertain the idea of thinking about yourself and what you want in the future when everything is so weird and uncertain, both in your personal life and the world.

Well, kept i challenging myself by asking what I really dream of in this part of my life. Especially at a time like this. Don't get wrong, I am utterly in the stage I really accept what happens in life.

But adulting also teaches us to worry more, worry about unnecessary that could be, or perhaps will happen in the future. cause worry is what I called selfishness in disguise, and when is too often, people give in to worry without realizing how destructive it is. Because we are more concerned with our selfish desires are not being fulfilled.


And the more you worry the more complicated your life becomes.



Perhaps an occasional Freak out. All Fine. But too many IT IS NOT FINE.

Remember you're actually responsible for your own emotional WELL-BEING. it might not seem you have a lot of options when it comes to your feeling and coping these days. Like you're stuck with all of it. and getting UNSTUCK IS STILL MYSTERY.

Nonetheless, how you feel is always a choice, even though it really doesn't feel like it. The thing is, the way you're feeling was created with all the scenarios that running inside your head. AND MY FRIENDS REMEMBER WE ARE WHAT WE THINK WE ARE. your thoughts ... your feeling is all optional.

So, the question now is, WHY NOT DREAM?

Why not think more about what you want? Regardless of how old you are? How many kids do you have? How many Responsibilities do you have? How many baggages you have on?

Are you with me? Dreaming is a pretty intriguing idea:

  • It's FREE
  • it's FUN
  • It's a welcome DISTRACTION

So why not dream, doesn't require getting a big one, just dream to have :

  • a good sleep after the whole week struggled with all the work
  • a nice cuppa after sending your kids away for school
  • hosting a dinner party with all your loved one
  • a new hobby and skill that you want to learn
  • or a relationship that you're more present?

I know what you're probably thinking though. it feels too indulgent to think about oneself. it sounds so selfish or maybe a waste of time.

I hear you.

But when you really think about it. there's no downside to dreaming. And I tell you there are so many things that you will miss like you won't be ready to move forward if you don't dream. your mindset wont is different so you won't be prepared. And you are way more excited about life.

So yes, we are still allowed to dream, regardless of whatever holds us on.

REMEMBER

YOU'RE WORTH IT.

AND IT FEELS GOOD TO DREAM.

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