Recently I had a real conversation with my dearest friend, the quote of one of them said " Life set you up when you least expected". It was a very moving conversation that I had for a while that made me sometimes think that I always draw out all the dreams, plans, etc., and forget the real thing of my own purposes. That's somehow too exhausting right!!!! Then the question comes out what is HAPPINESS for me?
Scientifically said Happiness is a profound psychological state that describes a spectrum of emotions. Pride, joy, contempt, and gratitude — the feeling of happiness is subjective to whoever is experiencing it. And It generates positive changes throughout our lifetime by improving levels of confidence, concentration, and motivation, among other things, and deeper than this it's all positivity to maintain your happiness for better results in physical wellness.
“The Harder We Search For Happiness, The More Difficult It Is To Find.”
It's always a tricky and unique thing to say when we are all about finding happiness. It seems as though the harder we look for it, the more we can't seem to find it. Our expectations were rocketing and hoping for an abundance of happiness whenever and wherever that it will be. It sure does a challenge to measure up to our own expectations.
When we were young, our emotions were so simple. The things that gave us joy did so because we were simply accepting of them. And as we grow older joy and happiness become a little more complicated- so we think.
Motivation, expectations, and pressure of life push us further away from happiness and enjoyment of money, career, and relationship. Then it comes the " WHY CAN'T HAVE IT ALL?" question that just keeps bugging you in the back of your head. Well, how are you going to find one when we continue to search for happiness in places it isn't found.
Hmmm... indeed you've already have a slight idea of what you want and that will be the happiness you try to find whether it comes from your career, relationship, etc. But it all just going to puff away when you keep Setting up the standard of what makes you happy.
Creating a general Plan for ourselves can seem very daunting, especially when you already cloud it with high expectations. Regardless of what you decide about your goal, happiness isn't going to be standing at the goal awaiting your arrival, do you know why? even when you get there and have some of the taste of things you already expect, you will crave more. But Once you get aspire for one thing, and run through it you will get excited and keep continue to push forward.
Happiness isn't the outcome rather than moving on to the process of doing, getting all excited to figure out how you will reach it. Finding joy in the journey is one. You will definitely find difficulties along the way trying to creep in to break you. But what is life without it?
So friends quit your pursuit of looking for happiness and start by manifesting YOUR HAPPINESS. It's easy to say, thus, I keep reminding myself to start taking a small step each day, and generate some positive energy force to influence the changes in my life. Well if I can do it, why can't you.
Remember, you get the opportunity to choose happiness every single day.
Finding happiness in yourself is a CHOICE, so why waste the Change?
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