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Messy, Marvelous, and Moving Forward: Cheers to 2025

 As the clock winds down on 2024, I can’t help but laugh a little at how this year felt like a chaotic sitcom starring yours truly. Between trying to "live my best life" and Googling how to be a functional adult at 30-something, I’m honestly just proud we made it through without accidentally subscribing to something cringe-worthy… again.

Let’s be real, though—2024 was a mixed bag. There were the anxiety-filled sleepless nights (you know, the ones where your brain replays that awkward thing you said in 2012), but also those unexpected bursts of joy that reminded me life doesn’t always have to be so serious. Like when I wore mismatched undies to an important occasions and somehow still nailed it. Or when I finally said "no" to things that drained me and "yes" to that double chocolate cupcake because of priorities.

And then there’s the big lesson: growth doesn’t have to be perfect. Sometimes it’s messy, like trying to assemble IKEA furniture without the instructions. But hey, even when life feels like it's falling apart, it’s just reassembling into something better—hopefully with fewer leftover screws.

As 2025 tiptoes in (with polite optimism, please), I’m not planning any grand resolutions. No "new year, new me" nonsense. Just more moments of grace for myself. More dancing to random songs in my living room. More embracing this anxious, happy-go-lucky, positive ball of energy that I am—messy hair, mismatched socks, and all.

So here’s to us, navigating another year of plot twists, awkward moments, and unexpected joy. Let’s keep showing up, taking deep breaths, and finding love in the little things. And if 2025 throws us curveballs? We’ll just laugh, cry, and keep moving forward—


With love, 


Chits. ❤️

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